Adoption, What Do I Do First?

This article is the first in a series. It is in no wayfrom the agency prior to signing any contracts. Many
complete or thorough. Please look for further articlesagencies reduce service fees to families who adopt
in the future. There are many legal aspects tochildren with special needs. You will need a home
adoption that vary from state to state, court tostudy, and because adoption is a legal process, you
court, and case to case. You will need an adoptionwill need an attorney. The cost of a home study
attorney for complete advice on the proper steps tovary. Plan to spend between $2,000-$3,000. Attorney
take for your situation.Step 1: Educate Yourself aboutfees and court costs can range from $1,500 to
AdoptionTalk to adoptive parents, read pertinent$7,000 depending on the complexity of your case.
books and articles, and contact local and nationalFortunately, due to federal and employer-initiated
organizations that can provide you with informationprograms, parents have several options for covering
about adoption. Acquaint yourself with commonthe cost of special needs adoption.Loans
adoption terms, and learn about relevant laws in yourAdoptive Families can apply for flexible loans such as
state to make sure that you are following legalhome equity loans and insuranceloans.Grants
guidelines as you pursue your adoption.Step 2:The National Adoption Foundation (NAF) provides
Contact an adoption attorney.Adoption is a complexeligible families with financial assistance, services, and
legal process. an attorney versed in adoption can givesupport before, during, and after their adoptions are
you advice specific to your circumstances.finalized.Employer assistanceEmployers that offer
There are several places that you can look to findadoption benefits may provide workers with:
an adoption attorney. The local yellow pages underdirect cash assistance for adoption expenses
adoption attorneys, the local court system, the localreimbursement of approved adoption expenses
or state bar association, the AAA (Association ofpaid or unpaid leave (above and beyond federal
Adoption Attorneys), and sometimes local adoptionleave requirements established through the Family
organizations or agencies will have listings.Step 3:and Medical Leave Act of 1993)
Consider the type of child you can best parent.Openresource and referral servicesTax CreditSince tax
your mind to the different children available foryear 2002, adoptive parents whose annual adjusted
adoption. You will need to consider age, race,gross income is less than $190,000 have been able to
number, ethnic background, special needs issues, andtake advantage of up to $10,000 in tax credits or
sex. Each of these possibilities opens new doors forper child to offset qualifying out of pocket adoption
you. The type of child you choose will affect yourexpenses.
waiting time.Step 4: Decide what type of adoption isFor special needs adoptions finalized in 2003 and
right for you.There are several kinds of adoption,after, adoptive parents can claim up to $10,000
each with its own complications, wait times andadoption tax credit per child regardless of their out of
advantages. No matter which option you choose,pocket expenses. The tax credit can be carried over
starting with an attorney is always your best choice.for 5 years if not all used in the first year.Adoption
Public Social Service Agency AdoptionPublic agencyAssistanceIf adopting a child who has special needs,
adoption involves any child in public foster care, thoseadoptive parents may be eligible for a federal or
involuntarily terminated from their parents, moststate adoption subsidy (also known as adoption
children with special needs (abuse issues, medicalassistance). Special needs children are considered
needs, sibling groups, age, etc.), or any child in thehard-to-place and therefore qualify the adopting
custody of the state or county. Cost is usually noneparents for special services. Special need is decided
or minimal.Private Agency AdoptionPrivate agencyby each state but is always based on age, number
adoption offers more flexibility, younger children andof siblings in the group, medical needs, or history of
babies. Private agency adoption fees start at $15,000.severe abuse or neglect. These children can be from
Intercountry, also called foreign or international,a public or private agency but must fit the state
adoption is also in this category.Independentcriteria to qualify. Benefits vary from state to state,
AdoptionIndependent adoption involves an attorney,but commonly include:
the birth parents, and the adoptive parents. Themonthly cash payments
choise of adoptive parents depends on the individualmedical assistance
birth parents' wishes. Costs include attorney fees,social services
court costs, travel and any support given to the birthone time adoption costs (travel, legal fees, court
mother.Paid Facilitator (Unlicenced Agency)costs)Step 6: Begin the Home Study ProcessA home
AdoptionPaid facilitator adoption is not allowed instudy is best described as an educational and
most states and poses a legal risk. Facilitators are notevaluation process designed to help your social
licenced in most states. Paid facilitator adoption offersworker learn more about your ability to provide a
less protection for the adopting couple, birth parent,stable home, to teach you about adoption and its
or the child. Some facilitators charge the same oraffect on children and families, and to prepare you to
more than licenced adoption agencies. Check carefullyparent a child whose experiences and history may be
when choosing this option.Step 5: Investigate waysdifferent from your own.
to cover adoption expensesAdoption agency serviceWith few exceptions, everyone who hopes to
charges vary widely. Always request informationadopt must have a completed home study.