| Waking up one day and realizing your
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| | offender in the case
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| world just isn't working for
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| | against remembering your spirit and
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| you is the first step into an incredibly
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| | inner truth. The good girl
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| exciting new journey.
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| | syndrome is so deeply ingrained that the
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| That awakening is to be the first of
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| | child seemingly lives to
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| many. Maybe you've been
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| | please others. Others are the priority,
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| reading self improvement books and
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| | and the self doesn't
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| feeling like something is
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| | really matter. In fact, it feels as
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| missing. That's a sure sign your life
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| | though the self doesn't even
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| may be changing, especially
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| | exist. It's been so long since the self
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| if you are beginning to question your
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| | had a chance to speak
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| own spirit.Have you listened to yourself
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| | that there is virtually no sense of self
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| lately? I mean really listened?
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| | left at all. All those
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| Did you hear anything? Maybe your inner
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| | times being told "No!" have accumulated
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| voice has been quiet and
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| | into a pliable body, a
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| suppressed for so long it forgot how to
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| | seeming automaton, a robot who is only
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| speak. Maybe it really
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| | here to serve others.
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| has wanted to speak but hasn't been
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| | Sound familiar?Is it any wonder why so
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| given permission.Recently I saw the
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| | many people are searching for assistance
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| result of a study on one of the
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| | in this day and age? The book industry
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| prime-time
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| | is loaded with self-help
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| news shows. The study showed that by the
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| | books. There is a growing discomfort
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| time a child is five
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| | within this world of
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| years old, that child will have been
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| | robots. Like Robin Williams in
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| told "No!" over 100,000
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| | Bicentennial Man, there is a
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| times! What are the ramifications of
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| | growing desire within our own lives that
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| this? Just imagine. A
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| | makes us stop and say,
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| child's only job is to just be who they
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| | "Wait a minute, this is not enough for
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| are. That's it! Can you
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| | me. I have a voice and
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| imagine that if 9 times out of 10, the
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| | somewhere deep down inside of me, I have
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| child was just being
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| | a self, and it's time I
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| him/herself and was told "No."?
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| | found out who that is."Being a robot no
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| Eventually the child internalizes
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| | longer works for us once we have that
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| this simple word into the understanding
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| | initial
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| that being the self is
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| | awareness, that one little light bulb
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| not okay.The painful truth is that most
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| | that turns on inside that
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| of society has been raised this
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| | says, "There must be something more to
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| way. What does it mean when this child
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| | my life than this." That
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| becomes an adult? That
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| | one little sentence begins a domino
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| adult is shut off from his/her spirit
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| | effect inside, tumbling down
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| and is living life
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| | the building blocks of denial that
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| according to someone else's rules,
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| | formulated the structure of
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| limitations, ideas, parameters
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| | our lives at such a young age.Once this
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| and belief systems. This adult may be
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| | crumbling begins, it truly is a 'brand
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| unable to make decisions
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| | new day.' The
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| without consulting others, looking to
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| | world begins to look different and feel
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| others to make the
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| | different. That's
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| decisions for them.This is where that
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| | because you are different. You asked a
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| underlying word "No!" setup the outside
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| | question and found a
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| authority figure that the adult still
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| | voice. Now is the time to begin the
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| looks for today. He/she
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| | search to find your self.
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| doesn't realize, and was never really
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| | It's in there somewhere, underneath all
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| taught, that when you
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| | those denial blocks,
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| become an adult you also become your own
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| | limitations, boundaries and belief
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| authority figure. That
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| | systems. A self is waiting to
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| may be an implied belief at 18. "You're
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| | be born!Remember, our parents always did
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| an adult now and you have
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| | the best they could with what
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| to make your own decisions," the 18 year
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| | they knew how to do. If they had been
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| old is told. This
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| | raised any differently
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| statement, however, does not include the
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| | themselves, then they would have raised
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| words, "You no longer
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| | you differently, but they
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| require our (parents') permission. You
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| | weren't. So, there's no blame here,
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| are your own authority
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| | plain and simple. It's just
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| now." Wow, wouldn't that have been nice
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| | finally time to start breaking the
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| if it had been spelled
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| | generational family
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| out like that. Unfortunately we take
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| | patterning. It starts with you.Your
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| some of that authority and
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| | questioning and questing breaks the
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| dump it into doing things that we've
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| | chain. You know that
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| always wanted to do
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| | once you remember your self, you will
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| externally, like drinking, partying and
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| | pass a new way of being
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| more.But, how much of that is a rebellion
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| | onto your children. As you grow, learn
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| and how much is remembering
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| | and discover your self,
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| your spirit and the inner truth of your
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| | you can't help but share that new
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| being? It gives you
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| | expression with others.
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| something to think about.Maybe you've
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| | Remember to welcome your self to this
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| never rebelled. Many women suffer from
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| | world. Remember that it
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| the "good
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| | truly is OK to just be your SELF!
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| girl" syndrome. This may be the worst
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