The Main Thing Is To Keep The Main Thing, The Main Thing

“Successful people keep moving. They makeback to that time of your original excitement
mistakes, but they don't quit” (Conradbecause of their questions about how you’re
Hilton)“Time cools, time clarifies; no mood cancoming along.Play pieces of music while working to
be maintained quite unaltered through the course ofinspire you and keep you “in the
hours” (Mark Twain)“It is wise to keepmoment” of what you are creating.Make it a
in mind that no success or failure is necessarilyweekly practice to listen to motivating teleseminars
final” (Anon.)“Successful people aren'tor CD recordings of other successful and inspiring
supermen and women. They fail, but fail forward.people.Spend regular moments of time visualising your
Success is not about perfection, it's aboutintended future. Really work on getting your
progression” (Simon Reynolds - advertising“picture” (of the ultimate point of final
wiz.)When you create or design something new foraccomplishment) more and more clear for yourself so
your future e.g. a new goal or enterprise, then youthat you can almost touch, smell, see the colours and
can be assured that there will be ups andhear the sounds of all that's around you.3. Set up
downs.Initially there may be very few, if anyphysical spaces that fully support your designed
“flat times” because of all thefuture. Have your home office fitted with tools that
associated novelties and the learning curve. Thereally work for you. Have simple and clear filing and
excitement and passion may last days, weeks andstorage systems so there’s a place for
even months.If your goal or new enterprise involveseverything and you don’t arrive at a desk
a 3 or 5 year plan, then chances are that you willeach morning with numerous piles of tasks –
experience many highs and lows. We doputting you in a ‘space’ of overwhelm
“know” this, yet when the flat timesbefore you even begin the day. Begin to list and
arrive we behave as though “it should not bestart putting together your necessary resources. For
that way” and lose momentum.Here are someexample, there is no sense offering hard-copy
tips for staying on the road if you are crystal clearinformation to others if you do not have sufficient
that you are using the most effectivematerials at your finger tips, should many
“vehicle” of your choice to fulfill specificopportunities show up all at once. Create email or
outcomes.1. Be very clear and maintain your clarity ofhard-copy templates for standard replies to common
purpose for wanting to accomplish your goal/intendedrequests.4. Learn to control and manage the 'little
outcome.Have at hand a minimum of five terrificvoice' in your head. Thank it for sharing. Create an
reasons for why you “have to” andimaginary buddy for this ‘voice’, a
absolutely “must” accomplish yourbuddy who tells you something to encourage and
chosen goal. Continue to update that list andempower. You can even “tap” on your
occasionally rewrite the list. Over time your initialnegative self-talk to gradually peel away the
reasons may lose their spur quality.2. Create an“onion-layers”! (See Chart your progress
environment that consistently reminds you of yourand have your chart(s) on display. Know that you are
original purpose and of your intended, ultimatemoving and that you have made progress. Set
outcome.The following are a few basic ideas forspecific milestones at preset dates that you can
this:Surround yourself with physical displays such ascelebrate along the way.A wide angled view of
computer screen-savers, wall boards, a piece ofsuccess is: being fulfilled, self-expressed, authentic and
jewellery, markers/images in your diary, a housejoyful. You cannot experience these without 100%
garden plant that you watch grow as your enterprisecongruence between you and your environment.
does.Choose with whom you spend most time andYour environment either calls forth your
use regular meetings or calls with a buddy, coach,authentic-self or keeps you locked in a cycle of
mentor or supportive partner.The more people youfrustration.
tell about your goal, the more often you will be taken