The Family Bed

There's an old tradition in Ireland, the wake bed, amakes his own way into the family bed throughout
family bed where the dead are waked. Well, thethe night.
family bed takes on a whole new meaning when youYou may resort to tricks to encourage him to stay in
have children: the awake bed!his own room. Lovely new bed-clothes, soft
When your new baby arrives home from the hospitalcharacter lighting, soothing music, pretty mobiles...
all your plans to not spoil him go out the window. HeDon't fool yourself; he's well ahead of you! His
is a tiny little soul and you are his slave. He squeaks,nocturnal excursions continue. You beg, you plead,
you run. You are completely in his control!for a full night's sleep in your own bed without your
You planned to feed him, bathe him, dress him, playlittle visitor - but it falls on deaf ears! Still he pays his
with him, show him off and at the end of the day,call.
put him to sleep in his lovely new crib!You resort to purchasing a new bed for yourself, a
Real life isn't like that...bigger one. You have a bright idea: let the wee man
You've fed him, bathed him, dressed him, played withhave your old bed. He'll like that, his own big bed, just
him, showed him off and, sleeping soundly in yourlike mummy and daddy!
arms, you've tenderly placed him in his lovely newMore lovely bedclothes, lots of praise for your little
crib. His eyes open, he glares at you, opens histreasure. Why didn't you think of it sooner?
mouth wide and screams loud enough to awaken theOh, the naivety of first-time parents.
dead!His new bed might be bigger but so is yours; there's
How dare you abandon him like that?even more room between mummy and daddy now.
At the end of a tiring day you dolefully give in to hisSo he can bring a few toys along too!
battle cry; you lift him and he stops... you are in hisAs the family grows so does the gap. You
grip!precariously hang off one side of the new big bed as
As days and nights merge into one he habituallyyour husband hangs off the other, but you smile as
sandwiches himself between mummy and daddy!you sing along to, 'There were five in the bed and
Number two arrives and it becomes a priority tothe little one said,"Roll Over!"'
make number one stay in his own bed. But, oh no, heLife imitates nursery rhymes. Didn't you know that?
doesn't like that! He may start off there but he