Helping Your Child to Make Friends

No matter how you decide to educate your childacceptance.
with Down syndrome, there will still be the issue ofThis does not mean that your child will never be
socialization - making friends. One of the biggestteased or never be hurt. The fact is that most
worries of parents with a Down syndrome child is:children, with or without Down syndrome experience
Will my child be teased? How will I help my child withsome teasing and hurtful comments. This does not
this and any hurt feelings?make it right, but it is a sad fact of life.
Believe it or not, it is not typically the children youOne of the best defenses is to let your child know
have to worry about - it is their parents. Mostfrom the very beginning that she is different, but
children will be accepting of your child. Parents,that differences are OK. Let her know that we all are
however, have often been taught that Downdifferent! This way, if your child encounters teasing,
syndrome children need to be isolated and can't doshe will be able to say, "Yes I am different. All people
much. They may think that your child should not beare different, and so am I."
included in activities with their child.By Jane Orville
The best thing you can do is to invite other childrenJane Orville is the mother of a 17 year old Daughter
over to play. Make friends with the other child andwith Down Syndrome and has spent years
their parents. Let them know about Down syndrome.researching and compiling all the wisdom she has
Help them to understand that your child is more likegained into a simple guide to assist parents deal with
their child than different. It is amazing what happensthe concerns of raising a child with Down Syndrome.
as people begin to understand. Understanding leads to